The Life of Lord Byron
Chapter XXV
CHAPTER XXV.
Arrival in London.—Mr. Dallas’s
patronage.—Arranges for the publication of Childe
Harold.—The death of Mrs. Byron.—His sorrow.—His
affair with Mr. Moore.—Their meeting at Mr.
Roger’s house, and friendship.
Lord Byron arrived in London
about the middle of July, 1811, having been absent a few days more than two years. The
embarrassed condition in which he found his affairs sufficiently explains the dejection and
uneasiness with which he was afflicted during the latter part of his residence in Greece; and
yet it was not such as ought to have affected him so deeply, nor have I ever been able to
comprehend wherefore so much stress has been laid on his supposed friendlessness. In respect
both to it and to his ravelled fortune, a great deal too much has been too often said; and the
manliness of his character has suffered by the puling.
His correspondence shows that he had several friends to whom he was much
attached, and his disposition justifies the belief that, had he not been well persuaded the
attachment was reciprocal, he would not have remained on terms of intimacy with them. And
though for his rank not rich, he was still able to maintain all its suitable exhibition. The
world could never regard as an object of compassion or of sympathy an English noble, whose
income was enough to support his dignity among his peers, and whose poverty, however grievous
to his pride, caused only the privation of extravagance. But it cannot be controverted, that
there was an innate predilection in the mind of Lord
Byron to mystify everything about himself: he was actuated
by a passion to excite attention, and, like every other passion, it was often indulged at the
expense of propriety. He had the infirmity of speaking, though vaguely, and in obscure hints
and allusions, more of his personal concerns than is commonly deemed consistent with a correct
estimate of the interest which mankind take in the cares of one another. But he lived to feel
and to rue the consequences: to repent he could not, for the cause was in the very element of
his nature. It was a blemish as incurable as the deformity of his foot.
On his arrival in London, his relation, Mr.
Dallas, called on him, and in the course of their first brief conversation his
Lordship mentioned that he had written a paraphrase of
Horace’s Art of Poetry, but said nothing then of Childe Harold, a circumstance which leads me to suspect that he
offered him the slighter work first, to enjoy his surprise afterward at the greater. If so, the
result answered the intent. Mr Dallas carried home with him the paraphrase
of Horace, with which he was grievously
disappointed; so much so, that on meeting his Lordship again in the morning, and being
reluctant to speak of it as he really thought, he only expressed some surprise that his noble
friend should have produced nothing else during his long absence.
I can easily conceive the emphatic indifference, if my conjecture be well
founded, with which Lord Byron must have said to him,
“I have occasionally written short poems, besides a great many stanzas in Spenser’s
measure, relative to the countries I have visited: they are not worth troubling you with, but
you shall have them all with you, if you like.”
Childe Harold’s Pilgrimage was accordingly
placed in his hands; Mr. Dallas took it home, and was
not slow in discovering its beauties, for in the course of the same evening he despatched a
note to his Lordship, as fair a specimen of the style of an elderly patron-
ising gentleman as can well be imagined: “You have written,” said he,
“one of the most delightful poems I ever read. If I wrote this in flattery, I should
deserve your contempt rather than your friendship. I have been so fascinated with Childe Harold, that I have not been able to lay it down; I would
almost pledge my life on its advancing the reputation of your poetical powers, and on its
gaining you great honour and regard, if you will do me the credit and favour of attending
to my suggestions.”
For some reason or another, Lord Byron,
however, felt or feigned great reluctance to publish Childe Harold. Possibly his repugnance was dictated by diffidence, not with respect
to its merits, but from a consciousness that the hero of the poem exhibited traits and
resemblances of himself. It would indeed be injustice to his judgment and taste, to suppose he
was not sensible of the superiority of the terse and energetic poetry which brightens and burns
in every stanza of the Pilgrimage, compared with the loose and sprawling lines, and dull
rhythm, of the paraphrase. It is true that he alleged it had been condemned by a good
critic—the only one who had previously seen it—probably Mr. Hobhouse, who was with him during the time he was writing it; but still I
cannot conceive he was so blind to excellence, as to prefer in sincerity the other composition,
which was only an imitation. But the arguments of Mr.
Dallas prevailed and in due season Childe Harold was
prepared for the press.
In the meantime, while busily engaged in his literary projects with Mr. Dallas, and in law affairs with his agent, he was suddenly
summoned to Newstead by the state of his mother’s
health: before he had reached the Abbey she had breathed her last. The event deeply affected
him; he had not seen her since his return, and a presentiment possessed her when they parted,
that she was never to see him again.
Notwithstanding her violent temper and other un-
seemly
conduct, her affection for him had been so fond and dear, that he undoubtedly returned it with
unaffected sincerity; and from many casual and incidental expressions which I have heard him
employ concerning her, I am persuaded that his filial love was not at any time even of an
ordinary kind. During her life he might feel uneasy respecting her, apprehensive on account of
her ungovernable passions and indiscretions, but the manner in which he lamented her death,
clearly proves that the integrity of his affection had never been impaired.
On the night after his arrival at the Abbey, the waiting-woman of Mrs. Byron, in passing the door of the room where the corpse
lay, heard the sound of some one sighing heavily within, and on entering found his Lordship
sitting in the dark beside the bed. She remonstrated with him for so giving way to grief, when
he burst into tears, and exclaimed, “I had but one friend in the world, and she is
gone.” Of the fervency of his sorrow I do therefore think there can be no doubt;
the very endeavour which he made to conceal it by indifference, was a proof of its depth and
anguish, though he hazarded the strictures of the world by the indecorum of his conduct on the
occasion of the funeral. Having declined to follow the remains himself, he stood looking from
the hall door at the procession, till the whole had moved away; and then, turning to one of the
servants, the only person left, he desired him to
fetch the sparring-gloves, and proceeded with him to his usual exercise. But the scene was
impressive, and spoke eloquently of a grieved heart; he sparred in silence all the time, and
the servant thought that he hit harder than was his habit: at last he suddenly flung away the
gloves and retired to his own room.
As soon as the funeral was over the publication of Childe Harold was resumed, but it went slowly through the
press. In the meantime, an incident
occurred to him which deserves to be
noted—because it is one of the most remarkable in his life, and has given rise to
consequences affecting his fame—with advantage.
In English Bards and Scotch
Reviewers, he had alluded, with provoking pleasantry, to a meeting which had taken
place at Chalk Farm some years before, between Mr.
Jeffrey, the Edinburgh reviewer, and Mr.
Moore, without recollecting, indeed without having heard, that Mr.
Moore had explained, through the newspapers, what was alleged to have been
ridiculous in the affair. This revival of the subject, especially as it called in question the
truth of Mr. Moore’s statement, obliged that gentleman to demand an
explanation; but Lord Byron, being abroad, did not receive
this letter, and of course knew not of its contents, so that, on his return, Mr.
Moore was induced to address his Lordship again. The correspondence which ensued
is honourable to the spirit and feelings of both.
Mr. Moore, after referring to his first letter, restated
the nature of the insult which the passage in the note to the poem was calculated to convey,
adding, “It is now useless to speak of the steps with which it was my intention to
follow up that letter, the time which has elapsed since then, though it has done away
neither the injury nor the feeling of it, has, in many respects, materially altered my
situation, and the only object I have now in writing to your Lordship, is to preserve some
consistency with that former letter, and to prove to you that the injured feeling still
exists, however circumstances may compel me to be deaf to its dictates at present. When I
say ‘injured feeling,’ let me assure your Lordship that there is not a single
vindictive sentiment in my mind towards you; I mean but to express that uneasiness under
what I consider to be a charge of falsehood, which must haunt a man of any feeling to his
grave, unless the insult be retracted, or atoned for, and which, if I did not feel, I
should
indeed deserve far worse than your Lordship’s satire
could inflict upon me.” And he concluded by saying, that so far from being
influenced by any angry or resentful feeling, it would give him sincere pleasure if, by any
satisfactory explanation, his Lordship would enable him to seek the honour of being ranked
among his acquaintance.
The answer of Lord Byron was diplomatic
but manly. He declared that he never received Mr.
Moore’s letter, and assured him that in whatever part of the world it had
reached him, he would have deemed it his duty to return and answer it in person; that he knew
nothing of the advertisement to which Mr. Moore had alluded, and
consequently could not have had the slightest idea of “giving the lie” to an
address which he had never seen. “When I put my name to the production,” said
his Lordship, “which has occasioned this correspondence, I became responsible to all
whom it might concern, to explain where it requires explanation, and where insufficiently
or too sufficiently explicit, at all events to satisfy; my situation leaves me no choice;
it rests with the injured and the angry to obtain reparation in their own way. With regard
to the passage in question, you were certainly not the person towards whom I felt personally hostile: on the contrary, my whole
thoughts were engrossed by one whom I had reason to consider as my worst literary enemy,
nor could I foresee that his former antagonist was about to become his champion. You do not
specify what you would wish to have done. I can neither retract nor apologize for a charge
of falsehood which I never advanced.”
In reply, Mr. Moore commenced by
acknowledging that his Lordship’s letter was upon the whole as satisfactory as he could
expect; and after alluding to specific circumstances in the case, concluded thus: “As
your Lordship does not show any wish to proceed beyond the rigid formulary of explanation,
it is
not for me to make any farther advances. We Irishmen, in
business of this kind, seldom know any medium between decided hostility and decided
friendship. But as any approaches towards the latter alternative must now depend entirely
on your Lordship, I have only to repeat that I am satisfied with your letter.”
Here the correspondence would probably, with most people, have been closed, but Lord Byron’s sensibility was interested, and would not let
it rest. Accordingly, on the following day, he rejoined: “Soon after my return to
England, my friend Mr. Hodgson apprised me that a
letter for me was in his possession; but a domestic event hurrying me from London
immediately after, the letter, which may most probably be your own, is still unopened in
his keeping. If, on examination of the address, the similarity of the handwriting should
lead to such a conclusion, it shall be opened in your presence, for the satisfaction of all
parties. Mr. H. is at present out of town; on Friday I shall see him, and request him to
forward it to my address. With regard to the latter part of both your letters, until the
principal point was discussed between us, I felt myself at a loss in what manner to reply.
Was I to anticipate friendship from one who conceived me to have charged him with
falsehood? were not advances under such circumstances to be misconstrued, not perhaps by
the person to whom they were addressed, but by others? In my case such a step was
impracticable. If you, who conceived yourself to be the offended person, are satisfied that
you had no cause for offence, it will not be difficult to convince me of it. My situation,
as I have before stated, leaves me no choice. I should have felt proud of your acquaintance
had it commenced under other circumstances, but it must rest with you to determine how far
it may proceed after so auspicious a beginning.”
Mr. Moore acknowledges that he was somewhat piqued at
the manner in which his efforts towards a more friendly understanding were received, and
hastened to close the correspondence by a short note, saying that his Lordship had made him
feel the imprudence he was guilty of in wandering from the point immediately in discussion
between them. This drew immediately from Lord Byron the
following frank and openhearted reply:
“You must excuse my troubling you once more upon this very unpleasant subject. It
would be a satisfaction to me, and I should think to yourself, that the unopened letter in
Mr. Hodgson’s possession (supposing it to
prove your own) should be returned in statu quo to the writer,
particularly as you expressed yourself ‘not quite easy under the manner in which I
had dwelt on its miscarriage.’
“A few words more and I shall not trouble you further. I felt, and still feel, very
much flattered by those parts of your correspondence which held out the prospect of our
becoming acquainted. If I did not meet them, in the first instance, as perhaps I ought, let
the situation in which I was placed be my defence. You have now
declared yourself satisfied, and on that point we are no longer at
issue. If, therefore, you still retain any wish to do me the honour you hinted at, I shall
be most happy to meet you when, where, and how you please, and I presume you will not
attribute my saying thus much to any unworthy motive.”
The result was a dinner at the house of Mr.
Rogers, the amiable and celebrated author of The Pleasures of Memory, and the only guest besides the
two adversaries was Mr. Campbell, author of The Pleasures of Hope: a poetical group of
four not easily to be matched, among contemporaries in any age or country.
The meeting could not but be interesting, and Mr. Moore has described the effect it had on himself with
a felicitous warmth, which showed how much he enjoyed the party, and was pleased with the
friendship that ensued.
“Among the impressions,” says he, “which this meeting left on me, what I
chiefly remember to have remarked was, the nobleness of his air, his beauty, the gentleness
of his voice and manners, and—what was naturally not the least attraction—his
marked kindness for myself. Being in mourning for his mother, the colour as well of his
dress as of his glossy, curling, and picturesque hair, gave more effect to the pure
spiritual paleness of his features, in the expression of which, when he spoke, there was a
perpetual play of lively thought, though melancholy was their habitual character when in
repose.”
Leigh Hunt,
Lord Byron and Some of his Contemporaries (London: Henry Colburn, 1828)
An article was
written in “The Westminster
Review” (Medwin says
by Mr. Hobhouse) to show that the Conversations were altogether unworthy of
credit. There are doubtless many inaccuracies in the latter; but the spirit remains
undoubted; and the author of the criticism was only vexed, that such was the fact. He
assumes, that Lord Byron could not have made this or that statement to
Captain Medwin, because the statement was erroneous or untrue; but
an anonymous author has no right to be believed in preference to one who speaks in his own
name: there is nothing to show that Mr. Hobhouse might not have been
as mistaken about a date or an epigram as Mr. Medwin; and when we find
him giving us his own version of a fact, and Mr. Medwin asserting that
Lord Byron gave him another, the only impression left upon the
mind of any body who knew his Lordship is, that the fault most probably lay in the loose
corners of the noble Poet’s vivacity. Such is the impression made upon the author of
an unpublished Letter to Mr.
Hobhouse, which has been shown me in print; and he had a right to it. The
reviewer, to my knowledge, is mistaken upon some points, as well as the person he reviews.
The assumption, that nobody can know any thing about Lord Byron but
two or three persons who were conversant with him for a certain space of time, and whom he
spoke of with as little ceremony, and would hardly treat with more confidence than he did a
hundred others, is ludicrous; and can only end, as the criticism has done, in doing no good
either to him or them. . . .
John Galt,
“Pot versus Kettle” in Fraser’s Magazine
Vol. 2
No. 11 (December 1830)
“Dear Sir;—Amongst the
agreeable things which you say of me in your life of Lord Byron, you conjecture that I
‘condemned’
Childe Harold
previously to its publication. There is not the slightest foundation for this
supposition—nor is it true as you state, ‘that I was the only person
who had seen the poem in manuscript, as I was with Lord
Byron whilst he was writing it.’ I had left
Lord Byron before he had finished the two cantos, and,
excepting a few fragments, I had never seen them until they were printed. My own
persuasion is, that the story told in Dallas’s Recollections of some
person, name unknown, having dissuaded Lord Byron from
publishing Childe Harold, is a
mere fabrication, for it is at complete variance with all Lord
Byron himself told me on the subject. At any rate, I was not that
person; if I had been, it is not very likely that the poem which I had endeavoured
to stifle in its birth, should, in its complete, or, as Lord
Byron says, in its ‘concluded state,’ be dedicated to
me. I must, therefore, request you will take the earliest opportunity of relieving
me from this imputation, which, so far as a man can be written down by any other
author than himself, cannot fail to produce a very prejudicial effect, and to give
me more uneasiness than I think it can be your wish to inflict on any man who has
never given you provocation or excuse for injustice. . . .
John Galt,
“Pot versus Kettle” in Fraser’s Magazine
Vol. 2
No. 11 (December 1830)
I am glad to find my college
stories administered relief to your nerves, when we were together in the Malta
packet some one and twenty years ago; and I am not sorry that my wearing a red
coat at Cagliari, and cutting my finger in the quarries of Pentelicus, should
have furnished materials for your present volume; but to repay me for having
supplied these timely episodes, as well as for your copious extracts from my
travels in Albania, and also for inserting my note about Madame Guiccioli without my leave, you must
positively cancel the passage respecting Childe Harold
in page 161 of your little volume. . . .
John Galt,
“Pot versus Kettle” in Fraser’s Magazine
Vol. 2
No. 11 (December 1830)
I wonder that even common policy did not induce you to be
more cautious in making statements which might be so easily disproved, and
which have, indeed, been already incontrovertibly refuted. The very
conversation, which you have judiciously selected from Medwin, as one of those parts of his trumpery book to the truth of which you
can speak, I know to be a lie; for I never went the tour of the lake of Geneva
with Lord Byron. . . .
John Galt,
“Pot versus Kettle” in Fraser’s Magazine
Vol. 2
No. 11 (December 1830)
You tell me that your wish has
been to give only an outline of his intellectual character. I am at a loss to
understand how your gossip about him and me, and the silly anecdotes you have
copied from very discreditable authorities, can be said to be fairly comprised
in such an outline. But your plan ought certainly to have compelled you to make
yourself thoroughly acquainted with his poetry, and to quote him just as he
wrote. Nevertheless, you have misrepresented him at least nine times in the ten
stanzas of that poem which you call the last, and which was not the last, he
ever wrote. Oh, for shame! stick to your acknowledged fictions—there you
are safe—you may deal with Leddy
Grippy and Laurie Todd as
you please, but not with those who have really lived, or who are still
alive. . . .
[John Wilson et. al.],
“Noctes Ambrosianae XVII” in Blackwood’s Edinburgh Magazine
Vol. 16
No. 94 (November 1824)
And there was another funny thing o’ his, till a queer looking lad, one
Mr. Skeffington, that wrote a tragedy, that was called
“The Mysterious Bride,” the whilk
thing made the Times newspaper for once witty—for it
said no more o’t, than just “Last night a play called The Mysterious
Bride, by the Honorable Mr. Skeffington, was performed at Drury Lane.
The piece was damned.” Weel, ye see it happened that there was a masquerade some nights after,
and Mr. Cam Hobhouse gaed till’t in the disguise
o’ a Spanish nun, that had been ravished by the French army— . . .
Thomas Campbell (1777-1844)
Scottish poet and man of letters; author of
The Pleasures of Hope
(1799),
Gertrude of Wyoming (1808) and lyric odes. He edited the
New Monthly Magazine (1821-30).
Robert Charles Dallas (1754-1824)
English poet, novelist, and translator who corresponded with Byron. His sister Charlotte
Henrietta Dallas (d. 1793) married Captain George Anson Byron (1758-1793); their son George
Anson Byron (1789-1868) inherited Byron's title in 1824.
John Cam Hobhouse, baron Broughton (1786-1869)
Founder of the Cambridge Whig Club; traveled with Byron in the orient, radical MP for
Westminster (1820); Byron's executor; after a long career in politics published
Some Account of a Long Life (1865) later augmented as
Recollections of a Long Life, 6 vols (1909-1911).
Francis Hodgson (1781-1852)
Provost of Eton College, translator of Juvenal (1807) and close friend of Byron. He wrote
for the
Monthly and
Critical Reviews, and was
author of (among other volumes of poetry)
Childe Harold's Monitor; or
Lines occasioned by the last Canto of Childe Harold (1818).
Francis Jeffrey, Lord Jeffrey (1773-1850)
Scottish barrister, Whig MP, and co-founder and editor of the
Edinburgh
Review (1802-29). As a reviewer he was the implacable foe of the Lake School of
poetry.
Thomas Moore (1779-1852)
Irish poet and biographer, author of the
Irish Melodies (1807-34),
The Fudge Family in Paris (1818), and
Lalla
Rookh (1817); he was Byron's close friend and designated biographer.
Samuel Rogers (1763-1855)
English poet, banker, and aesthete, author of the ever-popular
Pleasures of Memory (1792),
Columbus (1810),
Jaqueline (1814), and
Italy (1822-28).
Horace (65 BC-8 BC)
Ars Poetica. (10 BC c.). A verse treatise cast as an Epistle to the Pisos; it was edited with a substantial
commentary by Richard Hurd (1749).