Lady Morgan’s Memoirs
Marchioness of Abercorn to Sydney Owenson, December 1811
December, 1811.
Dear Glorvina,
I own I think if you are not here by Christmas, you use
Sir Charles very ill indeed; let me
give you a piece of advice, which I know, from a long knowledge of the world,
that it is very unwise for a woman, when she intends to marry a man, to let him
for a moment suppose he is not her first object; for after marriage, people
have more time to reflect, and sometimes it might so
happen that a man might recollect that though he was accepted of for a
husband, that past conduct proved it was more par
convenance than from attachment; now I know you will
say, that as Sir Charles is not a very great match, he
cannot ever imagine you married him for aught but himself; but that will not be
so considered, and I recommend you to play no longer with his feelings. I am
sure Lady
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Clarke will be of my opinion; I leave
her to decide, trusting that she has a wiser head than you have. Tell
Lady Clarke I do hope she will be here before
Christmas; I am sure she will not be the person to put off coming.
I should be sorry to offend Mr. Mason; I am very sensible of his great goodness to me, and
if there was a chance of his taking it ill my not wanting the MS., pray have it
done. My objection to it is, that it has been so long about, that Lady Charlotte Campbell will have forgotten all
about it; if, however, the Schoolmaster is come up to do it, let it be done,
and, above all, express to Mr. Mason my gratitude. I only want the bookseller to change the books for
others—they are damaged, and I have a set of them here. He might let me
have No. 62, which is about the same price.
What is the cabinet? tell me. What is become of
Miss Butler? bid her write to me.
A. J. A.
Lady Charlotte Susan Maria Bury [née Campbell] (1775-1861)
Scottish novelist, daughter of John Campbell, fifth duke of Argyll; in 1791 she married
John Campbell of Shawfield and Islay (1796) and in 1818 Edward John Bury; she was
lady-in-waiting to Queen Caroline (1809) and published
Diary illustrative
of the Times of George IV (1838). Thomas Creevey described her as “a very handsome
woman and somewhat loose.”
Lady Olivia Clarke [née Owenson] (1785 c.-1845)
The younger sister of Lady Morgan who married Dublin physician Sir Arthur Clarke
(1778-1857) in 1808. She wrote songs and a play, and published in the
Metropolitan Magazine and
Athenaeum.
William Charles Monck Mason (1775-1859)
The son of Henry Monck Mason; he was an Irish antiquary who held a position in the
revenue department in Dublin (1796-1826 c.).
Sir Thomas Charles Morgan (1780-1843)
English physician and philosophical essayist who married the novelist Sydney Owenson in
1812; he was the author of
Sketches of the Philosophy of Morals
(1822). He corresponded with Cyrus Redding.
Lady Jane Manners- Sutton [née Butler] (1779-1846)
The daughter of James Butler, ninth Baron Cahir; in 1815 she married Thomas Manners
Sutton at Baron's Court, the residence of the Marquis of Abercorn in County Tyrone.