Lady Morgan’s Memoirs
Journal entries: December 1847-November 1848
December 12.—What a villegiatura I have made for the last three
months—a honeymoon spent with Lady Laura and
Mr. Grattan, at their pretty villa at Hampton Court,
then for a fortnight at Lady
Webster’s, Roehampton, and, en
passant, I paid a visit at the Grove, and found all the
family at home except its illustrious chief. Then to Dover with my poor
Jones for his health; but the place
disagreed with me after a fortnight, and so I left them and went to the
Deepdene, Mr. Hope’s—all
en grand seigneur, and most of all the master. It is much to say that the
wealthiest man in England is also the highest bred, the fine gentlemanism of
good society when it was best, with great natural
kindness. The party gay and charming.
Then from Deepdene I went to Llanover Court,
Monmouthshire (Sir Benjamin Hall’s, now Lord Llanover’s); staid there a week, and
departed from it with my dear Mrs. Murray,
for a visit to her mother’s, Baroness
Braye, at Malvern, and so on to the Duchess of Cleveland’s, Yorkshire; a fine party, who
moved and breathed by the Lodge Peerage, and then back
to town, where my dear niece and her
husband was waiting to receive me, the first time for years that I was welcomed
with cordial affection in my own lonely dwelling.
December 22.—I am actually off for Brighton! on a
visit to my kind old friend Lady
Webster, I little thought I could visit this sad place again. All my
old friends have come about me. The dear, warm-hearted and clever Horace Smith; the
Duke of Devonshire reproached me for
not having called on him on my first arrival, and sent me an invitation to
dine, immediately he heard I was here. Alas, we first met, a few days before he
came of age, at the Priory, Stanmore.
January 12, 1848.—Went to Elliot Warburton’s marriage with my
friend Miss Groves—a marriage
made, I do believe, on my little balcony. All the muses
assisted at this literary nuptials—Monckton
Milnes, Hayward,
Eothen Kinglake,—I was the
only she muse there. I offered two unfinished MSS. to
any lady who might adopt them for the nonce, to qualify them for being present.
Dined yesterday with Milner
Gibson; amongst the agreeables were Lord Dudley Stuart, that amiable
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roué, Sir Henry Mildmay, and the most illustrious
Mr. Punch; yes,
really and literally, Punch; Douglas
Jerrold—a very remarkable-looking man—diminutive,
plain, and evidently a valetudinarian; his manners simple, mild and
gentleman-like. We chatted across the table, and agreed about the national defences and the national
timidity having brought on the coming invasion. He said he would lower
the prices of house-rent at Brighton, if I would return there! I said I would;
and lo! there is an admirable and humorous paper on “Brighton
panic,” in the Punch of
this day.
February 12.—I have been very ill indeed for a
month, and my poor Sydney has been in
much sorrow; and I have been more miserable than I ever thought I should be
again. After my three great calamities I did not suppose time could have another in store for me; but I have been threatened with
the loss of all I have left me.
November 25.—The death of Lord Melbourne is one of the triste
incidents of this triste month. How many passages of my
own life are recalled by his death! How long I knew him, how much I owed him,
what joyous days and nights I have passed in his charming society, from my
girlhood to this moment! I called to inquire for him before I left town in
October; he sent his valet down to request I would come up. He was sitting in
his back drawing-room, amidst books and papers, en
robe de chambre; he was quite himself, pleasant and
chatty, and asked me what was the little packet I had in my hands. I said,
invites for a little
soirée the next evening, and I had not the courage
to ask him. “Why not?” said he, passing his hand over his
head in his old way; “I should like it
much.” “You don’t mean that, Lord
Melbourne,” said I. “Yes I do, and if I
feel up to it when the time comes, you will see me;” but when it
came, he did not come, and sent me a verbal message. He was looking ill, and I
did not think of asking him. Alas! I never saw him
again!
Thomas Milner Gibson (1806-1884)
English liberal MP and statesman educated at Charterhouse and Trinity College Cambridge;
he was president of the Board of Trade (1859-66).
Benjamin Hall, baron Llanover (1802-1867)
The son of Benjamin Hall, ironmaster and MP, he was educated at Christ Church, Oxford and
was Whig MP for Monmouth (1832-37) and Marylebone (1837-59); he was First Commissioner of
Works (1855-58).
Abraham Hayward (1801-1884)
English barrister and essayist who contributed to the
Quarterly
Review and wrote
The Art of Dining (1852); his translation
of Goethe's
Faust was published in 1833.
Henry Thomas Hope (1808-1862)
The eldest son of Thomas Hope, author of
Anastasius (1819). He was
an art collector and MP allied with Benjamin Disraeli, who began
Coningsby at Deepdene.
Edward Inwood-Jones (1814 c.-1856)
The son of Edward Jones; he was educated at Clare Hall, Cambridge and was rector of Shire
Newton near Chepstow. He was the second husband of Sydney Clarke, daughter of Olivia
Owenson Clarke.
Sydney Jane Inwood-Jones [née Clarke] (d. 1882)
The daughter of Sir Arthur Clarke of Dublin and niece of Lady Morgan; in 1834 she married
first, Thomas French Laurence (d. 1837), and secondly, in 1840, Edward Newton Jones, rector
of Shire Norton (d. 1856).
Douglas William Jerrold (1803-1857)
English playwright and miscellaneous writer; he made his reputation with the play
Black-eyed Susan (1829) and contributed to the
Athenaeum,
Blackwood's, and
Punch.
Alexander William Kinglake (1809-1891)
Educated at Eton and Trinity College, Cambridge, he traveled in the East and published
Eōthen (1844) and
The Invasion of the
Crimea, 8 vols (1863-87).
William Lamb, second viscount Melbourne (1779-1848)
English statesman, the son of Lady Melbourne (possibly by the third earl of Egremont) and
husband of Lady Caroline Lamb; he was a Whig MP, prime minister (1834-41), and counsellor
to Queen Victoria.
Sarah Otway, baroness Braye [née Cave] (1768-1862)
The daughter of Sir Thomas Cave, sixth baronet; in 1790 she married Henry Otway; in 1839
she succeeded to the title of third Baroness Braye.
Barbara Palmer, duchess of Cleveland [née Villiers] (1640-1709)
The daughter of William Villiers, second viscount Grandison (1614-1643) and mistress of
Charles II, who granted her the title in 1670. Her sexual adventures were detailed in
Delarivier Manley's
The New Atalantis (1709).
Sir Henry St. John Carew St. John Mildmay, fourth baronet (1787-1848)
English dandy, the son of the third baronet and an associate of Beau Brummel; he was MP
for Winchester (1807-1818). In 1814 he was involved with a crim. con. case with the Earl of
Rosebery; he later became insolvent and shot himself in his residence in Belgrave
Square.
Horace Smith (1779-1849)
English poet and novelist; with his brother James he wrote
Rejected
Addresses (1812) and
Horace in London (1813). Among his
novels was
Brambletye House (1826).
Lord Dudley Coutts Stuart (1803-1854)
The son of John Stuart, first marquess of Bute; after education at Christ's College,
Cambridge he married Christina Alexandrina Egypta, daughter of Lucien Bonaparte and pursued
a career as a Liberal MP aligned with Sir Francis Burdett.
Matilda Jane Warburton [née Grove] (1810-1852)
The daughter of Edward Grove of Shenstone Park, Staffordshire; in 1848 she married the
writer Bartholomew Elliott Warburton. She was a friend of Lady Morgan.
Grace Webster [née Boddington] (1847 fl.)
The daughter of Samuel Boddington, business partner of Richard “Conversation” Sharp; in
1824 she married Henry Vassall Webster, whom she survived.