My Friends and Acquaintance
Lady Blessington IV
Countess of Blessington to Peter George Patmore, [December? 1832]
“Seamore Place, Monday Evening.
“Dear Sir,—By mistake I
directed my note of Monday morning to Camden Hill instead of Craven Hill Have
you got it?
“The forthcoming dissection of my ‘Conversations,’
announced, is said to be from the pen of Mr.
——; and I think it not unlikely, for he is a reckless person who
has
nothing to lose, and who, if common fame speaks true,
is a man ‘Who dares do more than may become a man,’ |
or a gentleman, at least. Having been at Genoa while we were there, he is
probably hurt at not being named in the ‘Conversations.’ But the truth is, Byron fought so shy of admitting the acquaintance to us, though
we knew it existed, that I could say nought but what must have been offensive
to his feelings had I named him.
“It was one of the worst traits in Byron, to receive persons in private, and then
deny the acquaintance to those whom he considered might disapprove of it. This
was in consequence of that want of self-respect which was his bane, but which
was the natural consequence of the attacks he had experienced, acting on a very
irritable and nervous constitution.
“I have letters from Naples up to the 2nd. Lord Bentinck died there on that day, and is
succeeded in his title and fortune by his brother, Mr.
Hill, who has been our minis-
ter at Naples
since 1825 up to the appointment of Lord
Ponsonby.
“Very sincerely yours,
“M. Blessington.”
Thomas Noel Hill, second baron Berwick (1770-1832)
The son of the first baron (d. 1789); he was educated at Jesus College, Cambridge and in
1812 married 1812 he married Sophia Dubochet, sister of the notorious Harriette Wilson. He
died childless in Naples.
William Noel- Hill, third baron Berwick (1773-1842)
English diplomat and book-collector; he was envoy to Sardinia from 1807 to 1824 and
minister at Naples before he succeeded to the title in 1832.
Thomas Medwin (1788-1869)
Lieutenant of dragoons who was with Byron and Shelley at Pisa; the author of
Conversations of Lord Byron (1824) and
The Life of
Percy Bysshe Shelley, 2 vols (1847).
John Ponsonby, viscount Ponsonby (1770 c.-1855)
The son of William Brabazon Ponsonby, first Baron Ponsonby (d. 1806); he was a Whig MP
for Galway Town (1801-02); when not having affairs with Lady Jersey and Harriette Wilson he
pursued a career as a diplomat.