The Life and Correspondence of Robert Southey
        Robert Southey to C. W. W. Wynn, 28 February 1806
        
        
          
        
        
          
        
       
      
      
      
      
     
     
    
    
    
     “The intelligence* in your letter has given me more
                                    pleasure than I have often felt. In spite of modern philosophy, I do not
                                    believe that the first commandment is an obsolete statute yet, and I am very
                                    sure that man is a better being, as well as a happier one, for being a husband
                                    and a father. May God bless you in both relations of life! 
    
     “I shall be in London about the time when you are
                                    leaving it. . . . . It is long since we have met, and I shall be sorry to lose
                                    one of those opportunities of which life does not allow very many. It will be
                                    nearly two years since you were here, and if our after meetings are to be at
                                    such long intervals, 
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![]() there are not many to look on to. Many things make me
                                    feel old;—ten years of marriage; the sort of fatherly situation in which
                                    I have stood to my brother Henry, now a
                                    man himself; the premature age at which I commenced author; the death of all
                                    who were about me in childhood; a body not made of lasting materials, and some
                                    wear and tear of mind. You once remarked to me how time strengthened family
                                    affections, and, indeed, all early ones: one’s feelings seem to be weary
                                    of travelling, and like to rest at home. I had a proof the other night in my
                                    sleep how the mere lapse of time changes our disposition; I thought, of all men
                                    in the world, ——* called upon me, and that we were
                                    heartily glad to see each other. They who tell me that men grow hardhearted as
                                    they grow older, have had a very limited view of this world of ours. It is true
                                    with those whose views and hopes are merely and vulgarly worldly; but when
                                    human nature is not perverted, time strengthens our kindly feelings, and abates
                                    our angry ones. . . . .
 there are not many to look on to. Many things make me
                                    feel old;—ten years of marriage; the sort of fatherly situation in which
                                    I have stood to my brother Henry, now a
                                    man himself; the premature age at which I commenced author; the death of all
                                    who were about me in childhood; a body not made of lasting materials, and some
                                    wear and tear of mind. You once remarked to me how time strengthened family
                                    affections, and, indeed, all early ones: one’s feelings seem to be weary
                                    of travelling, and like to rest at home. I had a proof the other night in my
                                    sleep how the mere lapse of time changes our disposition; I thought, of all men
                                    in the world, ——* called upon me, and that we were
                                    heartily glad to see each other. They who tell me that men grow hardhearted as
                                    they grow older, have had a very limited view of this world of ours. It is true
                                    with those whose views and hopes are merely and vulgarly worldly; but when
                                    human nature is not perverted, time strengthens our kindly feelings, and abates
                                    our angry ones. . . . . 
    
     “God bless you! 
    
       Yours affectionately, 
      R. S.” 
     
    
    Henry Herbert Southey  (1783-1865)  
                  The younger brother of Robert Southey; educated at Edinburgh University, he was physician
                        to George IV, Gresham Professor of Medicine, and friend of Sir Walter Scott.
               
 
    Charles Watkin Williams Wynn  (1775-1850)  
                  The son of Sir Watkin Williams Wynn, fourth baronet; educated at Westminster and Christ
                        Church, Oxford, Robert Southey's friend and benefactor was a Whig MP for Old Sarum (1797)
                        and Montgomeryshire (1799-1850). He was president of the Board of Control (1822-28).