The Life and Correspondence of Robert Southey
Robert Southey to Grosvenor C. Bedford, 2 August 1797
“August 2. 1797
“My dear Grosvenor,
“I like the plan you propose, and see no objection to
it at present, but you know how feasible those things appear which we wish. One
circumstance only may happen to prevent it. I have some hopes that my mother will come and live with me. This I very
earnestly wish, and shall use every means to induce her, but it does not appear
so probable as I could desire. This I shall know in a short time; and if then
you have not changed your intentions, you know how gladly I should domesticate
under the same roof with you. . . . .
“I think you would derive more good from Epictetus, than from studying yourself. There is
a very proud independence in the Stoic Philosophy, which has always much
pleased me. You would find certain sentences in the Enchiridion, which would occur to the
mind when such maxims were wanted, and operate as motives: besides, when you
are ex-
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amining yourself, you ought to have a certain
standard whereby to measure yourself; and however far an old stoic may be from
perfection, he is almost a god when compared to the present race, who libel
that nature which appeared with such exceeding lustre at Athens, at Lacedæmon,
and in Rome. I could send you to a better system than that of the bondsman
Epictetus, where you would find a better model on
which to form your conduct. But the mind should have arrived at a certain stage
to profit properly by that book which few have attained;—it should be
cool and confirmed God bless you!
Epictetus (55-135)
Roman Stoic philosopher whose teachings were summarized by Arrian in the
Encheiridion.
Margaret Southey [née Hill] (1752-1802)
The daughter of Edward Hill, she married the elder Robert Southey in 1772; after the
death of her husband in 1792 she operated a boarding house in Bath.