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Memoirs of the Rev. Samuel Parr
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Sara Parr [Wynn] to an unnamed correspondent, 16 May [1797 c.?]
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PREFACE
Vol. I CONTENTS
Ch. I. 1747-1752
Ch. II. 1752-1761
Ch. III. 1761-1765
Ch. IV. 1765-1766
Ch. V. 1767-1771
Ch. VI. 1771
Ch. VII. 1771-1776
Ch. VIII. 1771-1776
Ch. IX. 1776-1777
Ch. X. 1779-1786
Ch. XI. 1779-1786
Ch. XII. 1779-1786
Ch. XIII. 1780-1782
Ch. XIV. 1786-1789
Ch. XV. 1786-1790
Ch. XVI. 1776-1790
Ch. XVII. 1787
Ch. XVIII. 1789
Ch. XIX. 1790-1792
Ch. XX. 1791-1792
Ch. XXI. 1791-1796
Ch. XXII. 1794-1795
Ch. XXIII. 1794
Ch. XXIV. 1794-1800
Ch. XXV. 1794-1800
Ch. XXVI. 1800-1803
Ch. XXVII. 1801-1803
Ch. XXVIII. 1800-1807
Vol. II Contents
Ch I. 1800-1807
Ch II. 1807-1810
Ch III. 1809
Ch IV. 1809-1812
Ch V. 1810-1813
Ch VI. 1811-1815
Ch VII. 1812-1815
Ch VIII. 1816-1820
Ch IX. 1816-1820
Ch X. 1816-1820
Ch XI. 1816-1820
Ch XII. 1816-1820
Ch XIII. 1816-1820
Ch XIV. 1819
Ch XV. 1820-1821
Ch XVI. 1816-1820
Ch XVII. 1820-1824
Ch XVIII. 1820-1824
Ch XIX. 1820-1824
Ch XX. 1820-1825
Ch XXI.
Ch XXII.
Ch XXIII.
Ch XXIV.
Ch XXV.
Appendix
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My Dear Sir,—Every well-constituted mind—and yours, I have abundant reason to esteem well-constituted—is stored with principles equally important to society, and efficacious in procuring its own happiness. Among these principles, fidelity is constantly affirmed to hold the highest place; and so loudly and unanimously have mankind applauded the exercise of this virtue, that the idea of deceit is at least outwardly spurned by the very basest of mankind, and to quote a trite though striking adage, there is honour even among thieves. Perhaps there is no situation in life more painful, than to contain within one’s bosom either joys or sorrows, without the power of participating them with some person, upon whose truth and sympathy the heart may safely rely. Such is the lot of many. But I trust such misery will never be mine. Your prudence, your wisdom, your unstained fidelity, your unassailable secresy, are my pledges; and I hasten to relieve my oppressed soul from a secret of the very highest possible importance; a secret, which my intimate acquaintance with men of the highest celebrity has alone enabled me to penetrate; a secret, upon which the fate of empires, if not of the whole human race, depends; a secret, of magnitude sufficient to convulse the mind of a stoic, however hardened by apathy; a secret, in short, too overwhelming in its effects, to be confided to a man less rigid in his moral principles, less blameless in the tenour of his conduct, less fortified against the power of temptation, or less proved by repeated and unfailing trials, than yourself. But, my friend, beware; and if you feel unequal to the trust I am about to repose in you, destroy immediately this paper, before you lead yourself into a snare, which will blast your own peace of mind for ever, and hurl the thunderbolt of destruction upon unoffending millions. Above all, keep the secret from all women. Mrs. John is a very worthy woman; I
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always praise her, though there is somewhat of a rebellious disposition in maintaining what she thinks right in her mind, which at times gives me great pain for your domestic comfort. You know, my friend, that women have no souls; that is, I mean, no souls except such as we choose to allow them. They are ignorant with respect to metaphysics and Greek—they are animals sent into the world to be a sort of medium between us, the faultless angels of creation, and the brutes of the field—they are to make our shirts, nurse our children, dress our dinners, wait on us when sick, try to amuse us when well, and serve as vents for those tyrannical and violent passions, which we dare not exercise on each other for fear of a beating. These are the proper duties of women, according to five thousand ancients, and ten thousand moderns; and nothing can so totally destroy the reputation of a man, as treating them with confidence or affection. Let me trust, then, my dear friend, that with your accustomed good faith, good sense, and good disposition to act as becomes a man, you will cautiously abstain from trusting any of your own sex, and still more anxiously avoid to hint to any of the inferior female race, this secret. I am going to dine with the servants of Mr. Bromley, at the Falcon alehouse.

S. Parr.
Hatton, May 16.