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Samuel Rogers and his Contemporaries
Caroline Norton to Samuel Rogers, 13 September 1842
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Preface
Vol. I Contents
Chapter I. 1803-1805.
Chapter II. 1805-1809.
Chapter III. 1810-1812.
Chapter IV. 1813-1814.
Chapter V. 1814-1815.
Chapter VI. 1815-1816.
Chapter VII. 1816-1818.
Chapter VIII. 1818-19.
Chapter IX. 1820-1821.
Chapter X. 1822-24.
Chapter XI. 1825-1827.
Vol. II Contents
Chapter I. 1828-1830.
Chapter II. 1831-34.
Chapter III. 1834-1837.
Chapter IV. 1838-41.
Chapter V. 1842-44.
Chapter VI. 1845-46.
Chapter VII. 1847-50.
Chapter VIII. 1850
Chapter IX. 1851.
Chapter X. 1852-55.
Index
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‘Mr. Charlesworth’s, Chapel Thorpe: Tuesday.
[13th September, 1842.]

‘Dearest Mr. Rogers,—Thank you for your letter to my boy—he asked leave to write to some who would be “really sorry” and I gave him your name and my sister Georgiana’s.1

‘I still feel stunned by this sudden blow. The accident happened here, and I have been sheltered here ever since, and do not leave till Thursday, when my fair young thing will be laid in the grave. The room here, where he died (and which was the first I entered)—the room where there was so much hurry and agony, and then such dismal silence and darkness—is empty and open again, and the little decorated coffin is lying at his father’s house (about two miles off)—alone; for Mr. Norton is gone to Lord Grantley’s (Grantley Hall) till to-morrow, which is fixed for the funeral.2

‘He died conscious—he prayed, and asked Norton to pray; he asked for me twice; he did not fear to die, and he bore the dreadful spasms of pain with a degree of courage which the doctor says he has rarely seen in so young a child. He had every attention and kindness which could be shown, and every comfort which was needed. He was kept here, not at first from any apprehension of danger, but because in his father’s house

1 Jane Georgiana, the youngest sister of Mrs. Norton, was Queen of Beauty at the Eglintoun tournament in 1839. She married, on the 10th of June, 1830, Lord Seymour, afterwards twelfth Duke of Somerset. She died on the 14th of December, 1884.

2 Mrs. Norton’s third son, William Charles Chapple, was born on the a6th of August, 1833, and died on the 12th of September, 1842.

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there is no attendance—nothing but an old woman who opens the gate! It may be sinful to think bitterly at such a time; and at least, I have not uttered the thoughts of my heart; I have choked them back, to spare pain to one who never spared it to me! But it is not in the strength of human nature not to think, “this might not have happened had I watched over them!”—or not I!—put me, put their mother on one side—make a cypher of me, who nursed and bore him. Half what is now lavishly expended in ceremony and decoration of the coffin which contains the senseless clay of my little lost one, would have paid some steady manservant to be in constant attendance on their hours of recreation. My poor little spirited creature was too young to rough it alone, as he was left to do—and this is the end of it! When I first came down, Mr. Norton was in bitter distress, and he comforted me with promises for the other boys—for those that remain. But his impressions are so weak and so wavering that I only tremble. Oh! it is a hard thing that I and my boys—that so many hearts should be in the absolute power of one who has no heart. In a few days all will be as if it had not been, to him! Already there is a change—already he thinks less of the anguish which made me almost kneel for the boy (Brinsley) who is with me, than of the doubt whether that does not, in some way, cancel his authority. I have had hard words to bear, even now, but I am too miserable to shrink from them. He was better before
Grantley came down.

‘Meanwhile he has at least allowed me to take Brin with me to London for a few days before they return to
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school—and my eldest will also join me for a day or two. They return on Saturday the 1st.

‘If you are in town, I will ask you to let my boy come to you some one morning: he is very eager about it. Poor little fellow! he thinks, having seen his father and me weeping together, all is once more peace and home. He made me write out a list of his relations, and of Brinsley and Georgie’s children. He is full of eager anticipation to make friends of all that belong to me. He was dreadfully overcome at first, and had an hysteric fit when he saw his brother dead; but at his age (eleven next November), and with his buoyant temper, sorrow must be very temporary. My other boy’s forethought, tenderness, and precocious good sense will, if God spares him, be the blessing of my life. He understands, by intuition, all I feel, and all that ought to be. He soothes his father, and watches me as if I, not he, was the helpless one; and God knows I am helpless! but my child is out of the storm—he is in heaven: too young to have offended, he is with those whose “angels do always behold the face of our Father”!

‘I will write to you again; good and kind you have always been to me—God bless you. I shall have left this on Thursday morning.

‘Your affectionate
Caroline Norton.’